The topic we are forced to raise is disgusting. But it exists. In courts, in psychologists' offices, in parents' correspondence, there are requests: how to teach a child to fear their father? How to make a girl tremble at the mention of his name? Mother and grandmother, joining forces, sometimes turn upbringing into a form of training. They use psychological techniques that professional manipulators could write a textbook about. This article is not a manual. It is a warning. Knowing the techniques is necessary to recognize and stop them. Why is this needed: the court as a goal The goal is always one — the court. To limit the father's communication with the child. To deprive him of his rights. To obtain alimony and sole custody. In civil proceedings, external manifestations of fear work better than any evidence. The judge sees the girl trembling at the mention of her father and thinks: "Clearly, he beat her." No beating is needed. Just a trembling leg is enough. Mother and grandmother understand: the brighter the symptom, the more convincing. Ordinary fear is subjective. But tremors of the limbs are objective. It is difficult to fake them spontaneously. But if a child is taught, if driven to a nervous tic — the court will believe it. And then the goal is achieved. Technique first: systematic demonization Grandmother and mother discuss the father every day, several times a day, in the presence of the child. Not neutrally. Not sorrowfully. But with hatred and fear. "He is dangerous," "he can kill us," "he is crazy," "he hates you." These phrases are imprinted on the subconscious mind of a ten-year-old girl. She hears them at breakfast, after school, before bedtime. The child's brain, especially in a tender age, does not filter information from authoritative adults. It absorbs: father = threat. Two to three weeks of such processing causes the girl to develop a conditioned reflex. The mention of the father's name or his appearance triggers the release of adr ... Read more